This move is quite bittersweet for me.  I’ve spent almost all my adult life in NC, really love it here.  I have a great job at Duke University with benefits that are out of this world and almost all of my friends are in NC.  Leaving it all is really quite scary when I let myself think about it.

It’s also very exciting!  The opportunity to go someplace and start a new life with my sweetie makes my heart race in anticipation!  I can’t wait for it!  It only took one marriage and 3 long-term relationships, but I’ve finally found the person I’m meant to be with and now I get to travel far away and have a new adventure with her!  What a grand idea!

I plugged in the replacement modem and it didn’t work; it couldn’t lock onto the cable signal.  Of course, the TWC office was closed by the time I realized I had a bad modem.  I went through two levels of local support and two levels of national RoadRunner support on the phone before they decided to send a tech out.  Fortunately, I got me an appointment between 9AM and 11AM today.  I thought I’d be offline until Monday morning.

The tech called me at 8:20AM this morning, arrived at 8:35AM, checked the signal on the cable, and then replaced the “new” modem with another which immediately came online.  He spent more time outside getting the replacement modem than in my apartment.

Gotta love TWC for giving me a bad modem after the customer service rep in the office bragged that they always test their equipment before giving it out.  Shame on them.

For example, I prefer New Balance shoes and have worn them exclusively for the last several years, but I loathe the laces that come with them.  Until I started putting an extra granny knot in the loops, they would come untied within 20 or 30 minutes of my putting my shoes on.  The extra knot adds time to putting my shoes on, and taking them off.  Ugh.  Last week, I read a post in my RSS reader about using a reef knot instead of a granny knot to tie your shoes.  The reef knot is self-tightening and will not come untied, while a granny knot will slip very easily.  I watched the enclosed video and compared the knots on my shoes to the video and couldn’t see a difference.  Yet, my shoes come untied rapidly unless I put the extra knot in the loops.  Then I realized I was doing something different!  The reef knot uses a single wrap of the laces at the beginning, and I always used a double wrap to keep the laces snug while I complete the knot.  I immediately retied them with a single wrap in the knot and my shoes stayed tied all day long!  Such a simple change and suddenly an annoyance in my life evaporates.  Here’s a really fast way to tie your shoes and make sure you get a reef knot every time.

Today, I found a set of keys dangling from the door lock on the gate mechanism of the parking lot I use at work.  I grabbed them, called parking service, and let them know I’d found the keys.  They asked me to bring them to their main office and I said I would.  During lunch, I dropped them off and the folks there were very appreciative.  The guy who lost them was out frantically searching a very large campus.  Their appreciation really made my day.

It’s the small things in life that keep you going.

Anyway, the main reason for this post is to show off some pictures of the ring!  We had it made by a jeweler we found at the Carolina Renaissance Festival who did a marvelous job.  It’s exactly what we wanted and I can’t wait to see how my wedding band will turn out.

Today, I tried again after learning the AT&T Carrier File 5.6 update was supposed to fix this very problem, but still no go.  Boo hiss.   Google searches revealed lots of people having this problem and several possible solutions ranging from rebooting the phone, resetting the Network settings in the phone, swapping out the SIM card for a new one, or even doing a complete backup, reset, and restore of all data on the phone.  I tried the easy ones, rebooting, and resetting network settings, but still no luck.

I also found several people who had issues with their settings in various backend AT&T databases that prevented MMS on iPhone from working.  One person, who already had an AT&T account, got an iPhone and the AT&T rep put him on the ‘Messaging 200′ plan instead of the ‘iPhone Messagin 200′ plan. His MMS service didn’t work until he got switched to the ‘iPhone Messaging 200′ plan.  AHA!  I logged into my AT&T wireless account, and sure enough, I had the ‘Messaging 200′ plan.  I switched over to the iPhone messaging 200 plan, waited a couple minutes, and then tried sending an MMS text message. It went through just fine.

My question is: Why did the  AT&T rep selling an existing cusomter, me, a new iPhone 3GS set me up with the ‘Messaging 200′ plan instead of the ‘iPhone Messaging 200′ plan? Seems like a FAIL way to do things.

Today was one of those days and it really got to me. I don’t like not liking my job and career but that’s where I ended up today. Blargh.

Some days are just bad days. Hopefully tomorrow will be a better day.